Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Can You Help Danica??


This is Danica. You may remember that I have written about her before. She was diagnosed at the age of 28-she is now 31. As you can see in the picture, she has 3 fairly young children. She is a single mom, with not a lot of family support (again-don't understand that, but..). She now has chemo induced leukemia, she needs a bone marrow transplant. So far there have not been any matches. One of the ladies is putting together a bone marrow drive in Chicago (other ladies are doing this in other areas). Please click here to view more information, and PLEASE pass the information along to anyone that you think could help out. The drive is on September 27th -233 N. Harlem from 11-4.

It is my understanding that now they simply draw blood to check for a match. I would get tested if I could. Unfortunately anyone that has had cancer is not eligible.

PLEASE get tested if you can. Here are the eligibility requirements. Danica is fighting for her life! She has been in the hospital more than she has been at home. The treatments they are giving her are working for now, however her body is getting tired from these treatments. She needs a match to be found. PLEASE help her be around to watch her children grow up!!

Monday, August 18, 2008

Courtney

Saturday I had some training in Chicago for the Network of Strength (aka Y-ME). I was the only one that showed up. So very one on one training! It is not exactly what I thought it was going to be. I thought it was for the health fairs--where you have a booth, pass out information, and talk to people that way. NO. It is to stand up in front of a room of people and talk to them. Not totally happy with this, but I guess I'll give it a try. I'm not as freaked out at the moment as I thought I would be. But of course that will change once something is set up.

I am hoping to get them going on doing something with younger survivors. Since the YSC has dropped the ball on this. I guess they figure since Chicago has Y-ME (I hate the new name) that they aren't needed. Not true. Maybe the two organizations can work together??

After that I went to see Courtney. She was still in ICU, but was being moved back to a regular room later that day. She has responded well to the new pain meds-that is wonderful! She was obviously tired-but didn't seem to be in as much pain as Tracey had mentioned her being in before. Again, Great News!! I had given her some wigs the last time I had seen her, she was due to start chemo again. She had since found out that the type of chemo she will have, she will not lose her hair. She said she liked the long curly wig though--we told her that she could always wear the wig anyway!!

Tracey has been by Courtney's side since last Tuesday. Thank god she has her!! She has been the one dealing with the doctors since her family isn't there. It would have been way too much for Courtney to deal with by herself. I really don't understand her mom. I met her back in December, I would never thought she would be like this. She was due to come today. If that was my daughter, you would not have gotten me out of that room. I guess I just don't understand. And probably never will, since this is not the way I think. She lives in Fort Wayne, IN. not all that far away. A group of about 9 friends and one of their mothers come to see Courtney Saturday-but her mom isn't there yet. Go figure.

Last week the drs had given Courtney 2 weeks to 2 months-a time line she didn't want to know. Saturday Tracey told me that since she is responding so well to the pain meds they have upgraded that to months. Obviously great news. Still hoping for a miracle in there. Hoping also that all of that time isn't spent in the hospital or hospice-that she gets to get out and enjoy herself at least a little bit. She does know the time line now--her dad did not respect her wishes and told her. (again--don't understand the thinking).

Friday, August 15, 2008

GOLD!!!! and...


Silver!!! Way to go USA!! The women's gymnastics was awesome tonight!! Nastia Liukin won the gold, with Shawn Johnson taking the silver. I won't pretend to completely understand the way they score them. I do have to say though, that I didn't get how they did some of the scoring, it just seemed off. Doesn't matter though! I can't wait to watch again with Haley tomorrow. I also can't wait until October!! I recently got tickets for the world gymnastics tour, which features-among others-Nastia and Shawn! This will be awesome! I haven't told Haley yet, so if you see her, don't let her know. It will be her and I, as well as Jenna and one of the girls from her gymnastics (Carissa) and her mom. I bet those tickets are going to start selling faster now!!


Thursday, August 14, 2008

Meet Courtney


Watch Courtney have fun dancing...

Courtney Getting Down




Courtney is a classically trained dancer, and loves to dance. The last time I saw her, it absolutely broke my heart because she was walking like she was 80. Now she is in the hospital again. She is in alot of pain, they are moving her back to ICU to manage the pain. It is not looking good. Another Chicago gal, Tracey, has been by her side. Her family is in Indiana, she does live with one sister, but she is not "there" for her. Not sure the whole story there, but it is sad. I plan on going to see her Saturday after my Y-Me volunteer training.

I am asking that you keep Courtney in your thoughts and prayers, or light a candle for her, whatever it is that you do. It completely sucks that at 23 she is having to go through this. It completely sucks that she probably will not make it to see this Christmas, or this fall. She should be out partying, having a blast, not going through this.

My heart is breaking. I don't know Courtney as well as some of the other Chicago ladies. She has a special place in my heart though. The outlook is not good. I wish there were some miracle to reverse this and return her to her youthful life. If she must leave us, I pray that she is pain free. I know I couldn't do what Tracey is doing. She is being a great friend-staying with her non stop. God this just sucks.



Sunday, August 10, 2008

*******

Happy Birthday to me!!!

The big 4-1

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Say WHAT????

Ok, this may not be for everyone, but OMG!!! It is freakin hilarious!!!

Man Almost Loses Penis Humping Steel Bench

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Idiots!!!

People are amazing! And I don't mean that in a good way. The girls and I were out today. I was at a light waiting to turn right, the light changes, I have to wait for the kid to finish riding his bike across the road before I turn. Well, the idiot behind me honks because I am not moving!! Can you believe it?? What could they possibly have to do that is so important that it is worth running a kid over? I mean really.

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Not Really into politcs, but...

I am not real well read on politics. I tend to stay away from the subject as much as possible. It just tends to start to many fights. And lets face it you aren't going to change my mind, and I am not going to change yours. BUT... for those sitting on the fence about the upcoming election, someone posted this on the bulletin board, and I think it is VERY important..........

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McCain's Health Care Plan McCain gave a speech on his health care plan yesterday which said very little. In this NY Times article, McCain's economic advisor Holtz-Eakin makes it clear that their political strategy is to avoid getting tied down on any details, so that the glaring flaws in the plan won't be quite so obvious.

Let's start with the one hard proposal McCain has made: he would tax employer-sponsored health insurance and create new tax credits--$5000 for a family and $2500 for an individual--for people who buy their own insurance. As Holtz-Eakin made clear in the talk I attended last month, this means that workers would have to pay taxes on the value of health benefits they received from employers. This is explicitly an attempt to kill the existing system of employer-provided care by dramatically increasing taxes on workers.

How would this work out for the typical worker? Consider this information from the most recent Kaiser Family Foundation study of health care costs:In 2007, for a family the average total premium for a health care plan was $12,106, with $8824 paid by the employer. Let's say the McCain plan is enacted. What would happen to that average family if the employer continued to provide coverage (Scenario 1)? For a married couple filing jointly with income $63K-128K, the marginal tax rate is 25%, so they would face a tax increase of $2406 (25% of $8824).

But of course the intent of the McCain plan is to kill the employer-provided system. So let's say the McCain program is adopted and your employer drops your family's coverage (Scenario 2). What would happen? You would now have to foot the complete $12,106 bill for coverage, a $8825 increase over the employee-portion you're currently paying. This would be offset by a $5000 tax credit. So net, you would end up paying $3325 ($8825-$5000) more for your health care.

So, remarkably, McCain has managed to design a heads-you-lose, tails-you-lose program. Either your employer keeps your coverage, in which case you face a huge tax increase. Or your employer drops your coverage, and you face an even more massive increase in your out-of-pocket health-care costs.

The best-case scenario would be that employers who dropped coverage would then increase wages, compensating workers for the jump in what they have to pay for health care. In the long-run, there's a fair case to be made that this would happen, but as Keynes famously remarked, "In the long run, we're all dead," and the transition period would be extremely painful.

Strangely, although the plan is plainly an attempt to deep-six the employer-provided system, according to the NY Time article, "Mr. Holtz-Eakin said he believed that many employers would still offer health insurance to try to attract the best workers ..." If that's right, these workers would face a huge jump in their tax bill (see Scenario 1 above).

None of this gets to the key problem in McCain's plan: on the individual market, people with pre-existing conditions would be denied coverage. Here's the relevant part of the Times article:

Mr. McCain had previously described aspects of his health care plan but on Tuesday offered new details on how to cover people with existing health problems, in a nod to the growing concerns about the difficulties that many sick, older and low-income people have getting insurance.

Elizabeth Edwards ... recently pointed out that both she and Mr. McCain could be left uncovered by Mr. McCain’s plan because she has cancer and he has had melanoma. Stung by such criticism, Mr. McCain is trying to develop a way to cover people with health problems while still taking a generally market-based approach to solving the health care crisis.

“I’ll work tirelessly to address the problem,” Mr. McCain said in a speech here at the H. Lee Moffitt Cancer Center & Research Institute. “But I won’t create another entitlement program that Washington will let get out of control. I won’t do it. Nor will I saddle states with another unfunded mandate.”

For people who currently get health insurance through their jobs, Mr. McCain’s plan would give them a tax credit that they could put toward buying a different, and potentially less expensive, health insurance plan tailored to their needs — and allow them to keep that health plan, and their doctors, even if they switch or lose their jobs.

But Democrats and some experts said the proposal might lead some employers to stop offering health insurance, and questioned whether the tax credit would cover the cost of private insurance ....

Mr. McCain’s speech here implicitly acknowledged some of the shortcomings of his free-market approach. But rather than force insurers to stop cherry-picking the healthiest — and least expensive — patients, Mr. McCain proposed that the federal government work with states to cover those who cannot find insurance on the open market. With federal financial assistance, his plan would encourage states to create high-risk pools that would contract with insurers to cover consumers who have been rejected on the open market.

Mr. McCain was vague Tuesday about just how his safety net would be structured, and did not specify how much it might cost, leaving the details to negotiations with Congress and the states. But his top domestic policy adviser, Douglas Holtz-Eakin, said in an interview that the federal share could cost between $7 billion and $10 billion — money he said could be redirected from existing federal programs that pay for uncompensated medical care, mainly in hospitals.

Mr. Holtz-Eakin said that sum, when combined with contributions expected from the states and insurers, that could provide coverage for the five million to seven million uninsured people t he estimates cannot obtain it because of their health or age.

These figures are nonsense on their face. If the federal government is going to subsidize a high-risk pool of 5-7 million people with $7-10 billion a year, the proposed subsidy is $1400 year. There is no way to this is going to be anywhere close to covering the extra insurance costs for a group that consists of old and sick people. Although McCain intentionally leaves out the details, the only place these extra funds could come from is from the states. In other words, although McCain says, "Nor will I saddle states with another unfunded mandate,” this is exactly what his plan would do.

Additionally, the 5-7 million is surely a vast underestimate of the number of people who would not be able to obtain health insurance in McCain-land. Anyone old, sick, or with a prior condition--a number that would easily be in the several tens of millions--would not be able to obtain insurance at anything other than obscene rates. Faced with no restrictions, insurers would cherry pick only the low-risk customers.

Overall, the McCain plan would raise taxes on workers in an effort to eviscerate the current health care system in the name of free market idolatry. To the extent it fails to completely destroy the existing system--as McCain's advisor anticipates--it would saddle the average family with $2400 in extra taxes to penalize them for having employer-sponsored care. And if the McCain plan succeeded in killing the current system, it would leave tens of millions unable to buy any care, until he comes up with some new safety net, details to be provided later, i.e. never.
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Sounds very scary to me. I felt an extreme dread when I found out that W had won the reelection (That man has done NOTHING to gain my respect, therefor I refuse to call him president). I feel the same sense of dread at the thought of Mc Cain being elected. This country has been through hell the last 8 years. It is time for a change!!

Ok, off my soap box for now.